Written by Ryan Curia, pastor of missions and church planting for Grace Baptist Church in Singapore.
I’m a new elder.
I’ve especially been reflecting on one parable as I begin—the parable of the wedding feast in Luke 14:7–11. This parable isn’t merely about banquet etiquette. It exposes the quiet desire to seek honor, and it asserts that in Christ’s kingdom, the way up is down.
That principle applies in many places, including elders’ meetings.
In my recent article, I encourage new elders to take the low seat. Not because they don’t belong at the table but because humility is essential to the work. For all elders, and perhaps especially for new ones.
Practically, it shows up in ordinary ways. Speak less and listen more. Learn the context before you critique. Remember your role: shepherd, not shareholder.
Taking the low seat isn’t passive. It’s Christlike humility. Our Chief Shepherd took the low seat, not at a banquet but at the cross. If he took the lowest seat, how can we reach for the highest?
Whether you’re a new elder, a seasoned elder, or preparing for the role, I pray this article encourages you to pursue humility in the work of shepherding.
Your brother,
Ryan
