Written by Jeremy Adelman, senior pastor of River City Church in Minneapolis, Minnesota, and member of the steering team for TGC’s Twin Cities Chapter.
I don’t feel alone in ministry.
That may sound simple, but it is a profound gift—one I too often take for granted. According to Lifeway, one in four pastors cite loneliness as a major challenge. While ministry can be isolating, one of the key reasons I haven’t experienced that burden is my participation in TGC’s Twin Cities regional chapter. This fellowship has provided connection and refreshment in three key ways.
1. Gospel Friendships
Our local chapter has helped me build relationships with like-minded pastors who not only share a commitment to the gospel but who understand the weight of pastoral ministry. These friendships remind me that my security isn’t in my ministry’s success but in Christ alone. I recall one coffee meeting with a fellow pastor that came at just the right time. The day before, I’d walked through a painful situation with a church member, and I needed someone to process it with. In this fellow minister, I found the kind of solidarity that values collaboration over competition. As a result, we both felt a sense of shared mission for the Twin Cities.
2. Gospel Vision
Our local chapter has a shared vision that the gospel is central to life and ministry. Ministry inevitably brings complex challenges. I need these regular gatherings with men who not only believe the gospel but filter all of life through it. Our fellowship helps to restore my heart and reminds me that renewal comes through Jesus alone.
3. Gospel Shepherding
As a pastor, I shepherd others, but I also need shepherding. Our TGC regional chapter has been a source of renewal at several key moments in my ministry journey. I entered one of our quarterly gatherings burdened over some dysfunction in my church. That day, the speaker reminded us of the realities of shepherding. It often isn’t glamorous, and if we’re getting our hands dirty with the real needs of people, we end up smelling like sheep, which isn’t always pleasant. Yet as this man who had walked the same road spoke, he shepherded my heart toward truth, and I was strengthened to move back toward my sheep again.
I’m incredibly grateful for our TGC regional chapter. It’s helped me stay faithful in ministry. God never intended for us to labor alone. We need his presence, and we need one another. If there’s a regional chapter near you, please join. And if there isn’t, consider whether God is calling you to start one. You won’t regret it.
If you are interested in starting a TGC Regional Chapter in your area, contact Bill Kynes.
—Jeremy