I love to talk. Those who know me, or meet me for the first time, quickly learn that I’m a verbal processor. Yet, when I began to show signs of burnout and my husband recommended I attend counseling, I hesitated. Sure, I had encouraged many friends to seek counseling, and I had even attended sessions with them for support. But this was different, I thought. My issue wasn’t that big.

In her article,You Might Need Marriage Counseling, Portia Collins wisely points out cultural stigmas that often keep people from counseling. As Christians, God is continuing to perfect us, but we’re not there yet. It’s OK to ask for help. Thankfully, he’s gifted people in the body of Christ to encourage us and help us reframe our struggle from a biblical perspective.  No matter how large or small our situation appears, talking with a pastor or professional counselor may be a good next step. I know it was for me.

With love and care,
Ann

Looking for a Christian counselor? Ask your local church or a trusted mentor for a recommendation near you.