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The Every Day Heart Work (Sometimes Hourly) of Forgiving Others

     Then he turned to the woman and said to Simon, “Look at this woman kneeling here. When I entered your home, you didn’t offer me water to wash the dust from my feet, but she has washed them with her tears and wiped them with her hair. You didn’t greet me with a kiss, but from the time I first came in, she has not stopped kissing my feet. You neglected the courtesy of olive oil to anoint my head, but she has anointed my feet with rare perfume. I tell you, her sins—and they are many—have been forgiven, so she has shown me much love. But a person who is forgiven little shows only little love.” Luke 7:44-47 (NLT)

Lord Jesus, nothing is more daily that the call to forgive; nothing is more scandalous than the way you forgive us; and nothing is more important than the way that we love others. I see everywhere in this passage, Lord.

I’m like Simon the self-righteous Pharisee. I often see people through the lens of criticism and judgment—especially if their actions have hurt or inconvenienced me, or if they struggle with things different than I do. Forgive me of my looking-down-at-others attitude, and continue to free me from a self-righteous attitude.

But I’m also like this broken woman at your feet. My sins are just as ugly and numerous as hers—just not as public or notorious. My theology affirms that you have forgiven all my sins—past, present, and future; and I praise and bless you for this good news. But I want the impulse of my heart, the words of my mouth, and the choices in my relationships to match the truth of my creed.

Jesus, I want to forgive others as you have forgiven me. I want to love you much more than I presently do, because you love me more than I can possibly imagine. Grant me big grace, Jesus, especially for the people who have caused me the deepest hurt, greatest shame, and lingering pain. So very Amen I pray, in your kind and powerful name.