“Diotrephes, who loves to be first...” (3 John 9); “The Son of Man (Jesus) did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many.” (Matt 20:28); “Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves.” (Phil. 2:3).
Lord Jesus, these passages present a most striking contrast. Diotrephes loved to be first. But you loved us by taking the “last” place, the lowest place—the cross. Diotrephes thought of getting and keeping. You had everything (literally), and gave your life as a ransom—as the full payment for our salvation.
You didn’t consider your equality with God something to be held onto for personal gain. You have never loved to be first. Rather, you emptied yourself as the quintessential Servant—serving us by your life, death, and resurrection (Phil. 2:1-11). Now, you ever live to serve us as our Advocate, Intercessor, and King. Even when you return, you will serve us (Luke 12:37; Rev. 7:17).
Lord Jesus, your unimaginable humility, unparalleled servanthood, and immeasurable love convict us to the core. It’s a “big ask,” but during the upcoming season of Thanksgiving and Christmas, will you restore our first love, first joy, and first humility?
May our “me-first-ness” get crushed under the glorious weight of your mercy, grace, and love. So very Amen we pray, in your most merciful and matchless name.